I am sure by now you all know the story of St. Valentine and how the whole shebang eventful day came about right? Now i know that for many of you it means a lot of things and to others it means...well.. practically nothing. But for those of you who do celebrate V day i have some nice tips for yall to spoil that special one without spending a cent like you are expected to.
You know amongst the two of you who works the hardest and who deserves the most break. Take a moment to think about it.... yep it ain't you is it? So tip number one: The oh so obvious breakfast in bed ( for those that live together). You don't have to go the whole nine yards to make the breakfast especially if you cant cook- we don't wanna kill anyone-just a simple breakfast and nice good morning kiss and then some.. if you like will do the trick
Tip no. 2: A massage, which is my specialty. Here is a quick guide to those of you that don't know a thing about massage except moving your hand up and down your partner's back...you know yourselves....
- Prepare some calming music in the back round and dim the lights or swich off the lights completely and light some candles
- You can use oil or cream depending on what you have in the house.
- Instead of just moving your hand back and forth on their back ask him/her where she would like a massage
- Start by stroking the area with firm pressure ( ask which pressure suits her by asking) using the palms of your hand
- Next movement use your thumbs now to do circular movements without changing the pressure
- If you are massaging the back use firmer pressure around the neck area to feel for knots and then massage on top of them but not with too much pressure because they are painful.
- Now last movement is to stroke to thumbs up and down the back( or whatever area u are massaging) alternatively
- Make sure you finish off the massage with a nice warm kiss on the area to seal the intimate moment....
Tip no. 3: let him/her know how much they mean to you. A simple note/letter goes a long way but if u not big on writing you can just do the note. Write what he/she means to you and how she/he makes you feel.
Tip no. 4: Forget the ordinary. Dress up during dinner as if you going out. Look your best and tell him/her to do the same. A kiss goes a long way so don't forget those in between conversation kisses and looking into his/her eyes every time before you do it.After all of this enjoy the pleasures that comes with that thank you kiss... and enjoy the rest of the lovers day....



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